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NWR: I just dont know what to do....kinda long...sorry

stephers_7stephers_7
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So...Here's the deal....I live in stillwater, I go to OSU and I'm graduating in December. My lease is also up in December. FI and parents are in Enid. I'm going to be applying to gradschool at UCO AND OU to better my chances of getting in to one.I came home for a couple of weeks (to Enid) to spend some time with the family before my final semester begins. I havent been home for a long period of time since I moved to stillwater and I guess Ive gotten used to my independence and doing things my way. Being here at home isnt very easy and its causing a few conflicts between my mother and I. My plan was to move to OKC after i graduated and get a job and work until the wedding and then FI will be transfering to the city to work. The thing is...I dont know where I'll end up for gradschool. I'd hate to get an apartment in Edmond just to find out that I'll be going to school in Norman and vice versa. I really dont want to move back to Enid becuase first off its Enid and this place SUUUUCCCKSS and second of all...if there are tensions between my mom and I while i'm just visiting its just going to be worse if I have to live here. what would you all do?  TIA :)
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Re: NWR: I just dont know what to do....kinda long...sorry

  • YogisBooBooYogisBooBoo member
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    edited December 2011
    Well if I were you, i would find a place in between or place that is almost equal distance between to the two. I live in Bethany with my parents and commute to UCO, which is only about 30 minutes or so depending on traffic and how fast I'm driving..lol. I'm about the same time frame from Norman, but it depends on my driving too. Maybe try and find an apartment close to one of the highways that would make it a little quicker than having to deal with city streets then highway (which is what I have to deal with).Sorry there's tensions between you and your mom. Good luck and I hope you can figure something out.
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  • Steven&Jamie Steven&Jamie
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    edited December 2011
    Sorry about the conflicts with your mom.  I agree with pp, try finding a place an equal (or close to equal) distance between UCO/Edmond and OU/Norman....that's probably your best bet.  If you don't want to be in Enid, don't stay there.  Don't make yourself miserable if you can do something to prevent it.  Good luck!! 
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  • stephers_7stephers_7
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    edited December 2011
    Yeah, I know that the benefits of moving back home would be saving up some money for after the wedding but I really really hate it here. All the people that i was friends with in highschool have moved on and the ones that have stayed have baby daddy drama and are drunk on a daily basis and I just can't deal with that. I guess I will do an apartment search, figure out how much I will need to move down to the city and start saving. Thanks ladies!
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  • YogisBooBooYogisBooBoo member
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    edited December 2011
    Let me know what you're looking for and I might be able to help ya some...I've done plenty of apartment search for FI and I so we can figure out how much we need to save up to get one.
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  • MelB228MelB228 member
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    edited December 2011
    As everyone has said, your best bet will be to move inbetween them. There are a lot of apartments to rent in the Heritage Hills/Mesta Park/Paseo areas that are old and historical and pretty cool. (those are the ares just north of Downtown/Bricktown...about 13th to 40th give or take a few streets) Also, a lot of times not terribly expensive. Most you won't find on the big apartment search sites, but will be in the papers. If you can afford to pay more or like the area better, Bricktown/Downtown has a lot to offer, too.
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  • KellahPandaKellahPanda member
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    edited December 2011
    Similar situation. We moved in the middle. Midwest City/OKC area is in the middle of Norman and UCO!
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