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an update of sort

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So, after last weeks posts, I had a lot to think about. I really wanted to have a sit down talk with BF this weekend, but he was not in the mood for a serious "state of the union" talk. Instead of forcing the issue, I told him I had just one thing I needed to say, and he didn't have to respond, but I need to tell him that I was sorry that I had made thing 'all about me' for so long, both in and out of the bedroom, and that I wanted to do what ever he wanted to this weekend.He looked at me, said thanks, and that he appreciated my appology, and then we dropped it. So, we saw a movie, wandered the used book store, played video games, went for a bike ride, he test drove a new Fiat 500 (he thinking about buying one soon), I helped him with his resume, and all in all had a wonderful weekend. It felt really nice to just hang out, without me being all neurotic. Things are good, and will over time get better. 
He's out of town this week for work, and the two following weekends visiting his bro and camping with his guys. Which is awesome, because my bar review classes start tomorrow...Boo! But at least he'll be busy, and I'll have a quite house. 

Which brings me to two requests- 1) BF applied for a super awesome job with a company that he could grow with, and any thought/prayers/vibes you could send his way would be appreciated. 2) If you see me on here too much- yell at me. I know how easy it will be for me to not want to study, so help me kick my ass into gear!!!

Thanks for all the awesome feedback and suggestions ladies, you've been so helpful!!!
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  • cu97tigercu97tiger member
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    edited December 2011
    1) Viiiiiibes!

    2) Ha, ok, though I'm guilty of the same thing... using TK as a distraction!
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  • CCO2012CCO2012
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    edited December 2011
    Yeay for a wonderful weekend! I gave BF a man night last night, anything he wanted :) Except when he decided he wanted sexy time, it was after I had taken my Advil PM and I had no energy for sexy time :(
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  • loves2shop4shoesloves2shop4shoes member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm glad you talked to your BF.  Make sure that you apologize more with actions than words over the next few weeks/months and he will see that you're really sorry.  It's one thing to say you're sorry...it's another thing to stop the behavior, and have some fun in the bedroom, whether that means you get off or not.  I'm sure things will be great if you stick out the yucky period.

    Oh, and I will not do #2...mostly because I like you.

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  • Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    edited December 2011
    Sounds like you dealt with it well, Wilber.  I'm impressed with how you said that.

    Also, I'll honor your requests.
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  • lmwilberlmwilber member
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    edited December 2011
    I plan on making things about him for quite awhile ;) 

    Its not going to fix itself over night (damn...) but it will get better with time. We have so much that it good between us, and I want him to be as happy as he makes me. So, I will work on my shiit, he'll work on his, and we will get stronger. 

    ...and thnx Shoes, I like to too! but seriously I promise to check in every other day or so, and lurk often, but I have to study... :( please, yell, I lack will power!!!
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  • Ember01Ember01
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    edited December 2011
    I'm glad that your quick chat went well! I hope things continue to get better.


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  • lunarsongbirdlunarsongbird member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_update-of-sort?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:40311e0e-61ce-45b7-bcdb-37f08646eb72Post:d5e48e6f-1fdb-49d1-a653-9dc9099222c5">Re: an update of sort</a>:
    [QUOTE]I'm glad you talked to your BF.  Make sure that you apologize more with actions than words over the next few weeks/months and he will see that you're really sorry.  It's one thing to say you're sorry...it's another thing to stop the behavior, and have some fun in the bedroom, whether that means you get off or not.  I'm sure things will be great if you stick out the yucky period. Oh, and I will not do #2...mostly because I like you.
    Posted by loves2shop4shoes[/QUOTE]

    This. And when I see you- I'll try to do this:

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    But really- I'm SO glad that you two had a nice weekend! I forsee your slump ending soon!
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