Hi ladies - I've been mainly a lurker on the board butmy wedding is in less than 3 weeks and I'm in need of some MAJOR advice.Like everyone, we're on a budget and we're feeling pretty maxed out in the final weeks of wedding prep. We originally decided that we didn't need a wedding videographer and could do without. But yesterday morning, I woke up and had a feeling that I would really regret not having one. It's all I've been thinking about for the last 2 days!Maybe it's wedding jitters since I'm generally worried that I'm forgetting to do something, but I think it also has to do with the fact that we went to another wedding over the weekend and have spent a lot of time with FI's grandparents, who are always reminiscing about wedding, etc. It seems like we'll want to capture every second of the day with photos AND video. Plus, i read online that not having a videographer is often a bride's #1 regret.I already called around a few places and there are still some with availability. But, I talked to FI last night and he thinks we'll remember the wedding just fine without dropping another $1K. :-)I'm hoping to get someadvice on whether i should just drop this or find a way to make it happen. Ladies who were married, did you have a videographer? if not, do you regret it? are others planning on doing this? Why or why not?Also, has anyone found a great deal on a person in Indy? i know that some peopel have relatives man the camera, which i'm also thinking about doing...but I'm worried about the editing.TIA and Happy Wednesday!!