Most of you know my crazy story and how the wedding got cancelled day before & we ran off and just got married privately because of FI mom....
So we reset the reception/ a small religous ceremony to celebrate our new nuptuals for 9/23. MIL is doing MUCH MUCH MUCH Better.
So with not much time, we sent out evites.. I can SEE that you saw the invite, it sends me an email that you opened it and these FOOLS wont just click yes or no. We lost alot of guests because of how things went down and we understand that... so just say "no" then. The venue will make up our credit with upgrades. So the people that DO come will have a great time. I need to turn in numbers today and alot of deez folks havent even said yea or nay.... well Im about to answer "NAY"... smh
We paid for 55, got 39 yes, 20 no and 10 people are ust "out there".... Im done... Im giving in the # as 42 and upgrading the rest. Im done with these folks.
Like I said, given the circumstances, I understand the "no"s... I just want to know what to do. THEN when I CHASE folk down they say... "Im just not sure yet"... um ok.. my standard reply was "ok, Ill put down 'no', if that changes, let me know"