Did you put the actual events of the ceremony in order in the program (like what happens first, then next, after that, etc)...in which case did you discuss this with your rabbi beforehand... and/or did you just put what certain things mean like the chuppah, ketubah, etc. I guess I'm just confused a little... should I be discussing with my rabbi the order of events? We are having a destination wedding and have only spoken to our rabbi a few times.