Ok so just an update...hes been going to counseling for a month now and its going good for him. I have not put the ring back on but if he keeps going to counseling for awhile the we go as a couple I think we might just have a small wedding with close friends and family.Recap: He woke up and told me he was not ready to get married and after I asked if we were breaking up and he said I guess I moved out. The next day talked to me with big puppy dog filled with tears eyes saying he messed up. I told him he either goes to counseling and gets help or I find someone else.