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Maybe a Wedding?

Ok so just an update...hes been going to counseling for a month now and its going good for him. I have not put the ring back on but if he keeps going to counseling for awhile the we go as a couple I think we might just have a small wedding with close friends and family.Recap: He woke up and told me he was not ready to get married and after I asked if we were breaking up and he said I guess I moved out. The next day talked to me with big puppy dog filled with tears eyes saying he messed up. I told him he either goes to counseling and gets help or I find someone else.

Re: Maybe a Wedding?

  • ayamm1123ayamm1123 member
    Knottie Warrior 100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Glad to hear its going well.  Ensure you give him and the relationship time to heal and grow and take it a day at a time!
  • lpalladlpallad member
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Im glad its going well!!!! Just take it slow :)
  • TBHCJSTBHCJS member
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Glad to hear things are going well. It's encouraging that he jumped into counseling right away, so it's apparant he's trying. Do you want a small wedding with close friends and family? If you do, that's great. But if you're choosing that based on the current situation, I would considering waiting a little longer until things are 100% between you and FI and doing what you want. I guess I feel like if any hesitation on FI's part is causing you to change things around, that'd make me a little nervous. BUT if that's what you've wanted all along, then by all means have a small, intimate wedding. I just can't remember what you originally were planning. Hope that makes sense. Glad to hear the improvement!!
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