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Wedding Dreams/Nightmares????

Ok so I had a dream about my wedding a couple weeks ago and I really didn't think nothing of it. Until I just had another wedding NIGHTMARE over the weekend.  Is this going to be a trend??? I still have nine months to go I don't want to be terrorized up until then someone make them stop! lol Ok so here is my funny nightmare (or what i remember of it):ok so the first problem was that my FI was nowhere to be found. instead my groom was some short dude a la gary coleman and it was the worst because we always had to be photographed on the stairs with him on the top stair! lol the second issue was one of my bridesmaids (some chick i have NEVER seen before). she kept talking about how hngry she was while we were taking pics and I said if you are going to keep complaining and not smiling in the pics you can leave and she said OKAY THEN! and bumrushed me on her way to the appetizer stations!! lmao so then the orange mound came out of me (a memphis hood) and i ran after her only to have everyone stop me saying NO NOT IN YOUR DRESS!!! so I stopped and made sure she was removed...ok that's all I can remember now.but someone please tell me i'm not the only one who has crazy dreams like this??? when am I going to have the nice fairytale wedding dreams??? :-)

Re: Wedding Dreams/Nightmares????

  • OFFOFF
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    You're not the only one. I still have 8 months to go and have nightmares about once a month! I just had one last night. My dress has come in and I go to try it on. I'm really nervous cause I've had a lot of 2nd thoughts. I try it on and it looks perfect until I realize it's only knee length! People will see my red shoes I scream. I start to cry and think there was violence and then I woke up. I'm with you where are my nice dreams!?!
  • braxtongirlbraxtongirl member
    Eighth Anniversary 100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I had a few around that time too. I haven't had some lately. Only have 33 days left. I think that I am too tired to dream!
  • bridecharismabridecharisma member
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I'm about 1 moth away. I had them for about a month, 3-4 times, in June/July. Anyway their gone now. But I also think my nerves have settled. Oh yeah, no fairy tale dreams here!
  • edited December 2011
    I've been having them too, girl! I don't know when they'll stop... this is the part that people fail to mention when they're telling you all about how YOUR wedding should go. lol. Since we're sharing... in my most recent dream (earlier this month), my grandparents did my wedding in the vacant lot behind their house! They thought that I said the wedding was in August! And, for some reason, I couldn't muster up the strength to tell them it was supposed to be in February!!! None of our friends were there; everyone was 65 and older. My wedding turned into a Labor Day BBQ and not in a cute way like you see in the magazines!
  • edited December 2011
    Oh hell yes! I thought tha it was just me, but I am excited 2 know that I am not dillusional...I juse keep telling myself that its only a dream, 'my wedding will go as plan'..
  • edited December 2011
    Yes, I too am experiencing weird dreams, nightmares rather.  My most recent wedding fiasco was about a month ago.  I had a dream that it was the wedding day.  Everything was ready to go.  I had already walked down the aisle with my dad and everything.  Everyone was there except FI (go figure)!  So, best man calls him on his cell, he says he is in his hotel room.  Best man goes up to get him, he says he just can't come down, it's too many people in the church.  He is totally freaked out, he never comes down to the wedding, I am standing at the alter alone and I wake up. Needless to say, it was a little too close to Sex And The City the movie...so I haven't watched that movie since that dream.  Maybe the blue shoes I am wearing is connecting me to the storyline in some way....LOL.  Nah, I'm not really worried about FI showing up, I know he will.
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