Im looking to spend about 15 grand all together...first of all..is this totally impossible (cuz im starting to think it is).....I looked at the mission inn in riverside which i loved...but it seems like if i go with them i will have only like a hundred dollars to spend on everything else- photos, flowers, dj, videographer, bar etc...,.can anyone help me think of some cool venues that are under 20 grand or is this hopeless? I am trying to make my own centerpieces, do my own hair, have friends to the invites....what do yall think? thanks!!!