I need advice on 2 things that are totally unrelated!First- I need ideas for the reception. We aren't doing parent dances, a slideshow, a bouquet/garter toss, etc. I'm fairly anti-tradition (and very anti-cheesy) when it comes to the reception, we are only doing the first dance b/c I want that and cake cutting b/c FI wants that. But our DJ suggested having something else later in the evening to break up the dancing in place of the bouquet/garter toss. He suggested an anniversary dance, but I'm not sure how I feel about that. Does anyone have other suggestions for reception activities?Second- how many days before the wedding is a good time frame for a bikini wax?