After months of thinking, my FI and I really don't want to do the first dance. We have a DJ and a dance floor so we don't mind dancing with other people to few love songs here and there to enjoy...BUT we don't want to do the first dance.We are not gracious dancers, we are shy, and we will be extremely uncomfortable and if we do dance, it will just be for the sake of tradition.Anyone who didn't have that dance? Perhaps I need to incorporate something else..hmmmm....not sure.