So my DHs college roomate has just gotten engaged. He is Muslim and DH is his best friend. He has been asked to be best man for one of the two wedding (western wedding) So the talk is of 2 weddings one here one in pakistan ect. I'm going to admit my ignorance here what is different. What should we be looking at occuring what is the timeline. It is an arranged meeting marriage. Shoudl I do something to welcome her to the group? are showers common? what else should i be asking ?