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Getting stressed..no No's yet

hmschultshmschults member
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Well I guess its official..me and FI had our first fight about the wedding, number of people coming and money. I am wondering do the people not coming usually wait longer to send in the RSVP's? so far all yes's but we have not even gotten half back yet...Thanks!!
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Re: Getting stressed..no No's yet

  • cromero49cromero49
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    edited December 2011
    I don't know the answer to that (there probably isn't a good one though).  I am very worried, too, about what our numbers will look like.  Good luck!
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  • anglynanglyn
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    edited December 2011
    The majority of our No's came right on or after our rsvp date.I wouldn't worry just yet.
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  • hmschultshmschults member
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    edited December 2011
    I know I am trying not to stress yet..our parents got a little invite happy..his mom had said she would pay half of the reception cost so I couldn't say anything about her inviting all of these randoms..I kept having FI double check with her that she was going to cover her guests.."yes of course"..now its coming down to it and she says she will only give a flat amount...blahhhh I don't expect them to pay off the bat..but when I am told I can't have a say in her guest list because she is paying and then this...it gets me in the gut a  little
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  • katiemm2006katiemm2006 member
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    edited December 2011
    I had the same panic, but all of our nos came on the RSVP week. Don't worry, I think most people feel bad sending the no so they wait to do it until you'll be glad to have it!
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  • 1krazykitty1krazykitty
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    edited December 2011
    I was scared too, but dont worry. I didnt have ANY nos until the week of the rsvp date, they are always last to respond
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  • mjlkhkmjlkhk member
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    edited December 2011
    I think that is a normal fear. Even a year away and no invites out yet I fear it. We played it safe though. We can afford a max of 100 and we are inviting 98 (as of now) :-)Luckily we are also funding it ourselves so we don't have to worry about where the money is coming from. :-)It will all work out..... :-)
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  • mkorba439mkorba439
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    edited December 2011
    I wouldn't stress to much, We sent our invites three weeks ago and everyone we got up till monday was a yes for all invited. WE got our first no. I started freaking out and my mom told me most rsvp for no either wont send one or they will come on the rsvp date. I wouldnt worry till you know for sure. Enjoy it while it lasts.
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  • hmschultshmschults member
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    edited December 2011
    Alright I got a couple no's know..almost a little disappointed but then a HUGE sigh of relief as I saw the dollars dropping..hahahahahaha I feel almost guilty for that laugh
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  • hmschultshmschults member
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    edited December 2011
    oops...now not know..sorry
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