Okay I haven't ventured back to the knot in a while but I had to get your opinions on this! I'm a bridesmaid going to a bachelorette party this weekend and the bride to her MOH she was not comfortable getting lingiere. Ok fine then we don't really have to get her anything a gift at these is optional in my opinion. I had a lingiere shower for my bachelorette party and she didn't even come let alone get me a gift and she was a bridesmaid. Which was fine but now its her turn and her MOH asks for money to put towards a gift card. I say whatever and give her $25. Well now I hear she is just giving her the cash because the bride didn't see anything when they went to VS. I am super annoyed because I hate giving gifts of cash and now I'm pissed because I think if you don't want people to give you a gift I shouldn't have given the MOH my money at all! I asked her for my money back because I was semi ok with a gift card but didn't want to give her cash as a gift and she said but that is really what would make the bride happiest. Not to mention we each had to fork over more than $50 to go see this dinner show tomorrow night so it's not like I'm being cheap I'm just annoyed. What do you think? Do I have a reason to be upset/annoyed?
Krissy and Craig
Mr. & Mrs. as of May 23, 2009
Parents to Baby Jack as of March 4, 2010
and Bobbi Claire June 7, 2012