I have never believed in God in my whole entire life. My fiance knew this, and whenever we had discussed marriage before getting engaged, he knew I didn't want to get married in a church, because I felt that it was going against my beliefs. Now that we are engaged, and have talked about it again, now he is saying he is fine with getting married somewhere besides a church, but wants a Priest to perform the ceremony. I'd rather get married in a church than include God in my vows!!Please, for those who believe, don't flame me. Does anyone have any suggestions? I know we have time to discuss things more in length, but I'm not sure this is something I am willing to compromise on. Fiance says that a priest will make it more "official" because that is how he grew up knowing that weddings were done, blah blah blah. That's all very well and good, but if God is not a part of my life, why should I have to include God in my marriage vows?I'm okay with a religious officiant, but I'm not okay with God being a part of my vows. Does anyone know of a way that I would be able to make this possible?