My mom knows that I am not religious, and was trying to convince me to get Fi to convert...which obviously is not an option. I talked to a mullah today, who basically told me that even if Fi DID convert, it wouldn't count unless he actually meant it (this was a question of my MOM's, not mine...I only talked to the mullah because my 12 year old brother called me and told me that he was making him do online research). Anyway, I was kind of relieved at hearing this news, thinking that now they at least can't try to get him to do some sort of nominal conversion before the wedding (super common when Muslim women marry non-Muslim men...they just get them to go through the motions). So I called my mom and she is now freaking out, calling me a terrible person, and saying that we are not right for each other, blah blah blah. Has anyone dealt with this before? Tips?