I'm confused about these and hoping someone can answer my questions. I noticed that several of the ladies here have created more than one website for their wedding details. If all the details are posted on here - don't most of the guests know what to expect before they come to the wedding? I'm looking at STD's and several request an email address for the website - how do you determine which website you use and how much information you give your wedding guests? Please help with this confusion...thank you.