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I don't know if you ladies remember ItalyThomas (the honor sash girl lol) but I was lurking on the African American board and found a post from her. I normally don't post on here but I thought you ladies would get a laugh out of this:

Omg..I feel like I want to cry. Me and my bf had our real first fight saturday, and i said something so terrible that i regret until this day. he won't except my phone calls or my texts. I said to him if he asked to marry me would he expect me to say yes because of how he act. At that time it seemed right to say, but now i think it was wrong, and it hurted him. I really apologized for what i said but i don't think he's feeling it. I am so sad, my parents can see it all in my face and they ask me everyday whats the matter? All I can do is say nothing...I feel like crying..hopefully he will call or text.

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  • That seriously just makes my head hurt. I just got a confusion wrinkle from screwing up my face trying to read it.
  • I can't believe she would do things that hurted him. I don't think he will except her apology.
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  • Well, I don't enjoy it, but I might be in the minority.
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  • I don't know who that is but she sounds liek the 15/16 year old kids I see.
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  • hahaha i have been secretly looking up her posts ever since she came here.

    he's "hurted"...boohoo.
  • I don't like getting hurted either.
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  • I swear to god ricksang has the cutest freaking nose. Thats totally random but it is very nice and I notice it every time I see your pic!
  • I wouldn't "except" her phone calls either.
  • That hurted my brain.
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  • I refuse to believe people come in that variety.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_thought-guys-might-enjoy-this?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:c3806abe-cca2-4b71-975a-924e717fd724Post:49ba4d23-9112-4b0e-b154-101b25e09d04">Re: Thought you guys might enjoy this...</a>:
    [QUOTE]I swear to god ricksang has the cutest freaking nose. Thats totally random but it is very nice and I notice it every time I see your pic!
    Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

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  • She's making a BFD out of nothing. I don't think she said anything that hurtful. He may have been acting like a real jackass.
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    [QUOTE]I refuse to believe people come in that variety.
    Posted by buttaflai[/QUOTE]

    DED.  What varieties are believable?
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  • The best post was when she was talking about her FI and said that she doesn't want to accept one of his kids until he gets a paternity test.  The kid is less then a year and she's holding it against the kid.  She claims even that childs mom isn't sure he is the dad. 
  • I got this from italythomas' bio page.  Here is how her and her bf met:

    how did we meet?

    we where at my cousins house, and her baby daddy and my boyfriend are first cousins. We talked, then exchange numbers, then on we been unbreakable.


    In that statement alone, I know everything I need to know about her and then some.  Honor sash, my asss.
  • You thought wrong.
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  • I hate the term "baby daddy"............reminds me of the song - "that's just my baby daddy"




  • then on we been unbreakable.

    Til now!  Dun dun dun...
  • Stacks, me too.  I find it so degrading. 
  • This whole thing is just dumb.
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  • [QUOTE]DED.  What varieties are believable?
    Posted by squirrly[/QUOTE]

    The kind that isn't so stupid and crazy. You know. The kind who know how to formulate sentences. There IS a spellcheck you can use.
  • Reading anything that she posts hurteds my head too.
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  • definitely degrading.  She probably wonders why she has been stereotyped as a hotmess.  Oh well.  Maybe her other friends baby daddy's second cousin can hook her up with his friends baby mommas baby daddy next time. 
  • Stacks, you are definitely quoteworthy.  ::bowing to stacks::
  • p.s. buttaflai, your dress is GORGEOUS!
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  • Oh my head.  So did people help her out where she posted or did they get headaches too?
  • edited November 2009
    *Points down to my signature*

    Some girl on my club board I think was all dramatic about how she and FI got in a fight, and OMG maybe the wedding wouldn't happen. It's like really? You have a fight and you're calling off the WEDDING? What happens when you fight after you're married? Cheating, growing apart, HUGE fundamental differences in opinions/values are reasons to change your mind about getting married. Getting angry at each other and crying... why are you getting married in the first place?

    Edit: Damn, my Italy Thomas sig is gone! My old one is there. Off to try and fix it...
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  • This chick is stupid!
  • Can someone link me?  I can't find it.
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