I love my cousin and my bestie so very much!!
My cousin just started grad school and I'm not sure when we get into the planning that she'll be available as I'm in IL and the wedding is in MD. My bestie is wonderful and she'll probably have more time on her hands to help with planning and her daughter is my flower girl. I just want to help my cousin out and I know out of my bm's that my bestie is a good go-to person to handle tasks all my other bm's are either in school or just getting off the wedding wagon.
Should I have two or keep it at one?