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Can I have a Maid of Honor & a Matron of Honor?

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I have 4 people for my bridesmaids. But only 2 that I would consider for MOH. My sister (who's 17 and of course not married) and my best friend who got married a year ago. My Sister is the only one who could be a 'maid' of honor but I'm still unsure on whether to have my sister or my friend as MOH. I was just wondering if any one has had a Maid and Matron of honor?
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  • mbcdefgmbcdefg member
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    Sure, you can have two.
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  • bablingbrookebablingbrooke member
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    From reading this board, people seem to do it all the time.
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  • trix1223trix1223 member
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    It's your wedding party.  What exactly do you think will happen if you have a maid of honor AND a matron of honor?You'll still be married at the end of the ceremony.  The wedding police won't invalidate the ceremony.If you want both, have both.  If you don't want any honor attendant, don't have any.Just please don't choose an honor attendant based on who can "do more" for you.  Choose them because they are closest to you.
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  • stina93446stina93446 member
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    Sure, I was in a wedding where they had two.
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  • gchgch
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    I'm having both. I have no sisters, but I have two best friends who have been there for me through everything for as long as I can remember. They've both been very supportive of my relationship with my FI, and there was no way I was going to choose between them. One is married, so she is my Matron and the other is my maid. When I've told people I am having two, I've received some strange reactions, but it's our wedding & that's how we want to do it! :)
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  • p1nklemonadep1nklemonade member
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    My best friend is having both. I'll be her maid of honor, and her sister her matron. Lots of people have two these days, and I've been to weddings where guys have more than one best man as well.
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  • LaurenDarlingLaurenDarling member
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    I'm doing both. No hurt feelings there.
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