Hi Girls, I don't post often and the last time I did it was about my fiance's cousin scheduling his wedding two weeks after ours in North Carolina. Needless to say, I was pissed because they set theirs 2 months ago and ours has been set and known about for 16 months now. So today we got their invitation and a bunch of response cards from his family declining. I am in no way pissed at his family for not being able to come, the cousin is their brother. However, I seem to be having a huge amount of trouble with my rage and disappointment with his cousin and his fiance. My FI wants to drive down to their wedding two weeks after ours so we can see the family who couldn't make it to ours. I know this is the mature thing to do but I think it's going to be really hard to be happy for them after they chose to be so inconsiderate of our feelings. I feel like I'm crazy because every time we get a decline, I cry because I'm so mad at the cousin. Any suggestions for handling my anger that don't include showing up to their wedding in a white dress in a car that is decorated with "JUST MARRIED", calling them up and telling them just what I think about what they are doing? Ofcourse I'm kidding about the white dress and stuff!! I don't know how to deal with it!!!! Sorry for bitching