Ok guys, this is very depressing, so if you don't want to read a sad post, turn back! You've been warned!FI's mother has cancer and has been in the hospital for the past month or so. We just visited her all this past weekend, and as much as I like to be optimistic about everything, she didn't look good at all. Without getting into details, her cancer has spread and they have told her to get her affairs in order and appoint a healthcare proxy =(With our wedding still more than a year away, I can't honestly say that she's going to make it that long. I don't want to think this way, but it's become the reality for her situation. I have begun to consider the wedding and how the plans might change if she passes away. Should we postpone all wedding planning for now? She is our first priority at the moment. I have also heard of couples who have a small ceremony in the hospital so a sick parent / loved one can witness it. I'm wondering if this should be an option for us, and then we can still go ahead and have the nice ceremony and reception with the entire family as planned next year. Of course this would steal the thunder of the day, but we love her and want to include her as much as possible. Or maybe I could just go see her one day in a wedding dress so she can get the full effect but wait for the ceremony?Any advice? What would you guys do??
"Imperfection is beauty; madness is genious. And it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring" ~ Marilyn Monroe