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rudeness...

jforeman5jforeman5
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FI used to have this really obnoxious friend who was such a jerk and would always invite himself to everything (my birthday party for instance). He would always get drunk and insult everyone in the room and make an @ss of himself. FI stopped talking to him him over 2 years ago. Well last night, I got a drunk, rambling voice message on my phone  from this guy (I have NO idea how he got my number) saying "hi Jessi, this is Zak's ex-friend so-and-so, who wants to come to your wedding, but apperantly Zak forgot to invite me, so my number is xxxx, call me back." AAAHHHH! He's so aweful, no way is he coming to our wedding. FI is going to call him and tell him why he wasn't invited, and not to call me anymore. Knowing this guy he'll come anyway and act like we should be happy to see him. I didn't even know people like this existed...
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  • spongejenspongejen member
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    edited December 2011
    ummm CREEPY.  does he know where your wedding is/when?  obviously he either stalked it down online or asked a mutual friend, right?  i don't remember where your wedding is but maybe there is a way to check that mess at the door?  yikes haha
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  • Lauren5280Lauren5280 member
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    edited December 2011
    Isn't it amazing how many people come out of the woodwork for a wedding... Read, free party & drinks LOL I'm not sure I'd even call him... it just might invite more "conversation." Good luck with whatever you decide! Oh and can you give a picture of him to the people at your venue so that if they see him they can quietly escort him out?
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  • katierocks8884katierocks8884 member
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    edited December 2011
    I second the picture of him to the event staff! What a creeper, yuck! I think that your scenario is like #10 on my wedding fears list - unwanted "guests" showing up uninvited.
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  • COkristiCOkristi member
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    edited December 2011
    Ugh he sounds awful! FI has a similar former friend who is just a mess. We instructed all mutual friends not to give any of our wedding info to him. I'm crossing my fingers. I hope this crazy guy doesn't bug you anymore.
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  • burgergirl13burgergirl13
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    edited December 2011
    The same thing kinda happened to me...my FI's aunt is a drunk and she always tells everyone they are horrible people...she thinks she is perfect....she always causes drama...well we wernt going to invite her because we straight up dont like her....or her kids....one of her sons actually got so drunk he choked out my FI...so needless to say we told my FI mom that we we not going to invite her...and she freaked out saying if we dont invite her it would just be worse cause her and her family would just show up anyways...so in the end we have to invite her but if she acts up the bouncer is going to kick her out...but i know there will be drama...it just sucks to know that this chick will make my wedding worse
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  • steffenfamsteffenfam member
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    edited December 2011
    I would just ignore him and not return the call.  Then if he does persist and call again, then respond that sorry, the guest list is full.  However, is there a possibility that he would get the wedding info from another friend and just show up?  If that's the case, then you or FI need to call him now and say sorry, the guest list is full.We had one of those jerks for my daughter's wedding, however through email.  Same standard answer, guest list is full.
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  • jforeman5jforeman5
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    edited December 2011
    Wow, glad I'm not the only one who's been in this situation! We are worried that he will get the wedding info from one of his and FI's mututal friends (2 of which are GMs) and just show up. He's done this before, at 3 of the 4 birthdays I've been with FI, at BBQs, at FI's graduation party, etc... I just don't know why he's harassing me and not FI. I'm afraid he's already found out where the reception is. FI is going to call him and make it clear that he isn't invited and I hope that will do the trick. If he does show up, I'm confident in FI's ability to show him the door.
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  • mandalay_415mandalay_415
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    edited December 2011
    I would definitely set up some form of informal bouncer to make sure this guy does not get into your wedding reception. DH has a friend that is, shall we say, not wedding appropriate. He lives in MI and we told him the wedding out here already happened ;) but we're having a reception in MI over Thanksgiving and we've told the hotel that they are not allowed to put "Congrats Mandy & Dan: on the sign out front under any circumstances. Knowing our luck, the guy would crash it!
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  • cobride2be83cobride2be83
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    edited December 2011
    geeze. the nerve.
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  • amberlyroseamberlyrose member
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    edited December 2011
    Where the heck do these people come from? And where are their mothers to teach them manners?
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