Hello Ladies,  I'm stressing out per usual.  My wedding is currently booked at the Hard Rock Hotel for November of 2010 with a guest list of 125 people and a bridal party of 10.  I'm seriously considering canceling at the HR and having a much smaller wedding of 50 people at Candelas in Coronado and no bridal party at all.  Has anyone else had an event at Candelas?  I dont want to give up on the dream of the big wedding but I also can't see myself spending 25-30k on a wedding.    So, Candelas? Any thoughts?