We are having our wedding at the Desert Botanical Garden ( for those of you who know it, in the Wildflower pavillion, not the house at the top of the hill). We are using Santa Barbara Catering and doing long tables of 20. We are serving family style which I am really happy with. My question is, I have never been to a famliy style reception. Has anyone been to one and what were the possitives and negatives. We have already decided to go in this direction but I just want to be prepared. Thanks so much!