I know that there was a thread a couple of months ago concerning good officiants, and I think it's gone now. I'm looking for someone(a man) who isn't overly religious but who will do a prayer and a blessing and a wine ceremony, at a venue that is not a church. I'm getting married in 2 months and have no idea who is marrying us. HELP! I also need references for a good dj that will be able to get songs he may not already have for our wedding, but isn't terribly expensive. I have business cards for Let the Music Flo and First Choice DJ, but First Choice is kind of expensive and I just don't know anything about the other. Any other advice would be great too, not just on these two. Any advice or recommendations would help. Thank you!