FI and I were penciled in at our venue and we were supposed to be notified if someone else was interested. I haven't talked to one of the coordinators since late July but I've been in contact with the other since mid August. 2 weeks ago I went to meet with her so I could see pictures of events and FI and I went a few days later to see it set up for a reception. I e-mailed the other coordinator today to set up an appointment to clear up any questions and to book. She replies telling me our date has been booked! She said it was because she hasn't heard from me since July so she didn't think we were "serious" about booking. Hello! I've been in contact with your coleague since 2 weeks after I last spoke with you! Needless to say, I am pissed. I was in tears when I went to visit FI today and he's pissed as well. I know there's no way we will be able to have our reception there on our date now. Yes, we have the time and flexibility to change our date (but we would have to re-order STDs and our guest book), but I like our date. Moving it up would make it easier on us in terms of moving after graduation, but it would give us less time to come up with the money.Another thing we're thinking about...do we really want to change OUR date to have our reception there after the situation has been handled this way? FI says we shouldn't make the decision while we're upset and we should think about it logically. Sorry so long...WWYD?