Ladies: My wedding is quickly approaching & I have no idea who to use for my hair & my bm's hair. I have called a well known girl but A. she doesn't return my calls & B. she states that since my wedding is the day after halloween she might not be able to do a good job. So she's scratched off my list! I am terrified of the gallon of hair spray sticky, stiff look. I want a soft updo for myself & for my bridesmaids loose curls. Please help, recommend who you're using. TIA