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Hi Raquel!

amberg321amberg321
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Just thought I say "Hi"(This is going to fuel your "creepy" fire Kasi)So I said I wouldn't reveal my sources but its official that we have lurkers. I have no problem with Raquel or the fact that she chats with Knotties outside of TK but I've been told that she chats about things that we talk about on here which could only mean that shes on here, just not posting. Basically people are reading our posts and it kinda freaks me out that its being discussed with other people including knotties. This is just a rant but this kind of stuff makes me want to come on here less and less. CREEPY!
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Re: Hi Raquel!

  • jojochantijojochanti
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    edited December 2011
    LOL.. I talked to her about the baby shower but I guess I didn't look at it like that. Stop being creepy Raquel. =P
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  • jojochantijojochanti
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    edited December 2011
    And while we're at it, I honestly don't care but how did that girl this morning get my email address? It's okay and I really don't mind, but now you guys have me freaked out about it!
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  • amberg321amberg321
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    edited December 2011
    Wait a sec...you didnt give her your email address???
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  • Kasi80Kasi80
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    edited December 2011
    Raquel, why don't you post?  You're here and chatting about us, you might as well post here.  Don't use the excuse it's because you're not engaged because you're still here.  Jojo, not I!  I don't have your email addy.  :PTelling you this sh!!t is creepy!
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  • jojochantijojochanti
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    edited December 2011
    I didn't. I got her email before I even logged onto TK this morning so I was trying to figure out how she got it. I really don't mind if it was one of you though.
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  • sv4338sv4338 member
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    edited December 2011
    I would mind! I mean I'm not trying to start trouble but whoever gave this girl your email should of asked you first. Raquel you seem like a really sweet girl and we really dont care if you are engaged or not but it does creep us out that you come on here to read about our lives. Quit being a weirdo and come talk with us :0)
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  • Kasi80Kasi80
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    edited December 2011
    Agreed.  I see you on FB why not stop by here too and post since you lurk anyway.
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  • amberg321amberg321
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    edited December 2011
    My whole thing is either be on here and post every once in awhile or dont be on here at all. Its just too creepy that people would want to read all these posts and talk about them with other people yet never actually participate. I am all for new knotties. I just dont like having the feeling that someone is watching and reading. Its freakin me out!
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  • mariellernmariellern member
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    edited December 2011
    Hey guys...this is starting to feel a little like high school... the boards are meant for helping other girls out...thats why I am posting on here. I have gotten some great info and really appreciate it..but don't want to feel like "A lurker" as someone mentioned- thats really unfair....btw...I did get Jojo's name from raquel- she gmailed me and gave me your name...she was just trying to help me out...JoJo then wrote to me and helped me out tremendously... maybe just try to be a little more welcoming ;) thanks, marielle
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  • Kasi80Kasi80
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    edited December 2011
    None of this is geared toward you marielle.  We just don't like personal info to be given out if it's not run by that person and OK'd.  Believe me this is one of the most welcoming boards on this site.  Try a national board and you won't get people nearly as nice.   
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  • sv4338sv4338 member
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    edited December 2011
    We are the most helpful and accepting bunch of girls you will find. So I really dont understand what you mean by "try to be understanding" understanding of what that Racquel gave out personal info or that you are lurking? Its not that big of a deal to lurk we have all done it to an extent. We all know what the boards are meant for some of us have utilized them for at least a year we have all researched and some of us have even used each other recomendations. Im glad Jojo was of help to you she had a beautiful and amazing wedding just as several of the other girls have had and I'm sure any one of us would love to help. As for the comments directed at Racquel she knows why like I said before she seems like a really sweet girl what bothers us is when she would start to plan a lunch date or a baby shower and be all about it and then come with some excuse as to why she couldnt make it. Hey its no big deal if you dont want to hang out with us, our thing is dont plan stuff and be all gun ho about it and then flake EVERY time not just once here and there
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  • amberg321amberg321
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    edited December 2011
    This was in no way directed towards you Marielle. It was directed towards Raquel hence the title of the post. Nothing personal and I agree that the board is to help girls plan their wedding but this has been an issue for us for some time. Maybe it is "high school" from your perspective but when you have someone who made a very dramatic exit from the board saying they wouldnt be returning only to find that months later that same person has been reading all the posts and sending unwarrented messages/texts to other girls regarding our posts then you might be a little concerned yourself. We never wanted Raquel to leave and I actually really liked the girl. It just raises some red flags for us when this same person is handing out other girls personal information without asking first. I hope you can understand that this started long before you joined and its more of a concern for us rather then just high school gossip.
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  • Kasi80Kasi80
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    edited December 2011
    Well said Amber.
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  • mariellernmariellern member
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    edited December 2011
    gotcha..thanks for the clear up yalll
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  • Kasi80Kasi80
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    edited December 2011
    Glad it's all cleared up.  Hope you stick around.  We really are a great bunch.
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