ok I thought I had it figured out but now I can't decide. We are doing one of the dances as me and my father and then my FI and his mom at the same time. background: my dad did not raise me but did come into my life as a pre-teen or so and we have a very good realtionship. However all the songs about daddy's little girl just aren't us. Help! My step-father and I will dance to "you look wonderful tonight".