By the time FI and I marry next year, I'll be 41. We hope for kids, but don't have the financial resources for medical procedures or adoption if things don't happen naturally. Now that we're engaged, everyone is understandably asking about our plans for children. Most get the hint when I smile and say, "We'll see." But when people start getting persistent, I get all flustered and say stuff like "How should I know? It's not like my eggs are farm fresh." So... does anyone have other suggested responses? Polite or otherwise? I'm getting frustrated.