So the story is my FI and I dont talk to his youngest brother (unforgiveable reasons) and we both do not want him to be apart of our engagement or wedding.We have only been engaged 5 days and FMIL has started ALREADY!!!!She rang me at work the other day and started that we have to invite him she would be so upset if we didnt , that im splitting up the family,BLAH BLAH went on for ages.If he was to attend any celebration FI & I would feel so uncomfortable. me especially i get sick to the stomach when ever i see him.She has made me not even want to be engaged at the moment. So what do i do ?? Stand my ground or give into her to shut her up..?Sorry for the long post..Needed to get this off my chest.