I just feel the need to post that my husband-to-be returned from his out of state bachelor party and I managed to survived the stories,and boy what an relief that i will NEVER have to go through it again! just a word of advice to anyone dreading this.... its not as bad as some people make it seem yes he received the immature classic cookie cutter party i.e strippers... and yes there are things i wasn't pleased about, but being able to talk to my main squeeze about it and laugh it off together is just amazing! but i doubt he would have the same understanding if I had strippers for mine. anyone have any good or bad stories with the bachelor party? were you like me one of the chosen few to actually hear what happened?