Hello ladies,So, is it just me, or does a bride's happiest day seem to bring out the worst in those closest to her? :-) Here's a scenario for you to digest:My immediate family lives in several cities in Virginia. I am the only one of 5 children to move out of the state and I ended up moving to SD because of work. Both of my parents' side of the family live in Texas. My fiance's family lives in SoCal, as do most of our friends. No matter where I chose to have the wedding, a lot of people were going to have to fly.For several reasons, my fiance and I chose to have our wedding in SoCal. Since this decision I have heard a lot of grief from my cousin in Texas and my parents in Virginia. No one is happy to have to take off from work and fly out for our wedding, despite the fact that I have done the same for 3 of my siblings in Virginia and have attanded family events in Texas - all by taking my vacation time and flying out. I really don't understand why I am getting so much heat for this decision from my family.My cousin and I got into a huge fight last year and didn't speak for a while. Now the subject has come up again and my cousin keeps telling me I am not respecting the fact that the logistics for travel aren't easy for my family. For the record - my father used his frequent flier miles and hotel points to book most of my immediate family members their travel. My fiance and I are feeding them all of their meals except the free breakfast available at the hotels. I arranged (through headache inducing back-and-forth with my parents) for my cousin to stay with my parents and ride with them in their car so she only had to pay for her plane ticket (which was less than $300). I paid for my sister, her husband and their child to fly from Virginia.Am I crazy for thinking their anger and resentment is misplaced? Did this happen to anyone else?