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Did you/are you having a private last dance?

..If so what song are/did you use?

I am doing this as a little "US" time during the wedding since we are taking all pictures before hand.

Thinking of using Wonderful Tonight by Eric Clapton

Opinions?

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Re: Did you/are you having a private last dance?

  • edited December 2011
    We used Man and Wife by Michele Featherstone.
  • edited December 2011
    Yes! 

    Totally worth it. One of my favorite times of the entire day. 

    We used one of "our" songs. "Everything" by Johnny Cooper. It's a Texas Country song that has a special meaning to us, and every time I hear it on my ipod even still I think about our private last dance and tear up and get this big grin on my face. 

    ETA: Also, since you're doing pictures beforehand, you can always sneak away after the ceremony and have a few minutes of alone time before going to the reception. We did that, and it was well worth it also. The first few minutes after becoming husband and wife, together alone, are priceless. Of course, our photog was in the room with us but we didn't even notice them. 
  • edited December 2011

    Thanks for the tip Natalie

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  • bsn1752bsn1752 member
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    edited December 2011
    We are doing one and I'm way excited.

    It's actually my FI's job to pick a song and surprise me for the private last dance.  But I think that he was looking at "Hands Down" by Dashboard.  (only because I walked into our house yesterday and he quickly turned the song off and shut his computer).
  • edited December 2011
    Yes and it was the best part of our wedding! 

    We danced to George Strait " I Cross my Heart" ... I always wanted it to be my first dance song growing up.   Since it is a bit cheesy now and it would make me cry in a very ugly way, we decided to save it for the end.
  • edited December 2011
    We are doing one to "Spend My Life With You" by Eric Benet
  • MLandCJMLandCJ member
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    edited December 2011
    Fi picked a kenny chesney song "you and me"....I am not a fan of it at all.
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  • edited December 2011
    We are doing one and I cant wait for that moment!

    We are using Happy as the Sun by Tyrone Wells
  • edited December 2011
    We are doing one, and most likely using Hey Jude for it, since FI says thats his song for me.
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    edited December 2011
    Yes and it was the favorite thing of the night for both of us. 

    I chose the song "Stay Forever" by Ween, one of Ben's favorite bands as a surprise for him.
  • edited December 2011
    Ok. I'm behind, what's a "private last dance"?
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_texas-dallas-ft-worth_did-youare-having-private-last-dance?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:102Discussion:d320c9d0-05b9-47f2-840d-a42cb957ae2ePost:19d31f8c-36a6-42e3-b6e3-6904b3034d3d">Re: Did you/are you having a private last dance?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Ok. I'm behind, what's a "private last dance"?
    Posted by marksle84[/QUOTE]
    Your DJ clears the room of all the guests and you and your husband dance alone to a song.  Your photographer will stay to capture it but you won't even notice.  These were some of my favorite pictures of the night.

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  • edited December 2011
    Oh I had never heard of that! I don't think it would work at my reception unless we did it before the reception starts while they are all at the cocktail hour.  Since I think everyone will be dancing the night away!!!
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_texas-dallas-ft-worth_did-youare-having-private-last-dance?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:102Discussion:d320c9d0-05b9-47f2-840d-a42cb957ae2ePost:26521dc5-a858-4421-850a-2d66fadadddf">Re: Did you/are you having a private last dance?</a>:
    [QUOTE] "Wagonwheel" by Old Crow Medicine Show are the front runners.
    Posted by mrsamandamiller[/QUOTE]

    <div>LOVE. </div>
  • edited December 2011
    This was my favorite part.  I didn't even notice the photographer but you can tell me are 100% in love in the pictures.  We used My Best Friend by Tim McGraw. 

    Also I agree with Natalie, if you can sneak off for a few minutes before the reception do this.  Our chapel knows it's important for brides and grooms to have that alone time so after we walked down the aisle we went up to the bridal suite and had about 5 of us time and it was perfect!  We also snuck off during the reception to just be together. 
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_texas-dallas-ft-worth_did-youare-having-private-last-dance?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:102Discussion:d320c9d0-05b9-47f2-840d-a42cb957ae2ePost:ebd5327c-5704-4880-a24f-a4d5fac7dc52">Re: Did you/are you having a private last dance?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Oh I had never heard of that! I don't think it would work at my reception unless we did it before the reception starts while they are all at the cocktail hour.  Since I think everyone will be dancing the night away!!! Posted by marksle84[/QUOTE]
    Well, they have to leave sometime.  :)  We had everyone line up for our exit while we were doing ours.  We had a set time that the reception was over so that is why it worked for us.
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_texas-dallas-ft-worth_did-youare-having-private-last-dance?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:102Discussion:d320c9d0-05b9-47f2-840d-a42cb957ae2ePost:ebd5327c-5704-4880-a24f-a4d5fac7dc52">Re: Did you/are you having a private last dance?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Oh I had never heard of that! I don't think it would work at my reception unless we did it before the reception starts while they are all at the cocktail hour.  Since I think everyone will be dancing the night away!!!
    Posted by marksle84[/QUOTE]

    I think you could do it if you want to!

    The DJ clears the room and sends everyone out to get their bubbles/flower petals/streamers or whatever they are throwing at you when you make your exit.

    Then you make your big exit right after your private dance. :)
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_texas-dallas-ft-worth_did-youare-having-private-last-dance?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:102Discussion:d320c9d0-05b9-47f2-840d-a42cb957ae2ePost:ebd5327c-5704-4880-a24f-a4d5fac7dc52">Re: Did you/are you having a private last dance?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Oh I had never heard of that! I don't think it would work at my reception unless we did it before the reception starts while they are all at the cocktail hour.  Since I think everyone will be dancing the night away!!!
    Posted by marksle84[/QUOTE]

    <div>It should work for any reception. Normally it happens when everyone is lining up for the bride and groom to make their exit, so everyone is already out of the building. :)</div>
  • edited December 2011
    Feet Don't Touch the Ground by Stoney Larue
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  • edited December 2011
    Yes, I plan to. I'm thinking The Way You Look Tonight by Tony Bennet or By Your Side by Sade...
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_texas-dallas-ft-worth_did-youare-having-private-last-dance?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:102Discussion:d320c9d0-05b9-47f2-840d-a42cb957ae2ePost:6213a0f8-3118-49f4-bee8-625313985020">Re: Did you/are you having a private last dance?</a>:
    [QUOTE]<strong>We used Man and Wife by Michele Featherstone.
    </strong>Posted by shortgirltx[/QUOTE]

    We are doing one also!  I love the idea and I can only thank the ladies on here for the idea!!  We may use this song or another song we love. 
  • edited December 2011
    We're doing one and I'm really excited about it! We're dancing to "only you can love me this way" by Keith Urban.
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_texas-dallas-ft-worth_did-youare-having-private-last-dance?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:102Discussion:d320c9d0-05b9-47f2-840d-a42cb957ae2ePost:aabd58ea-4f0c-42f3-b077-26a43505fe91">Re: Did you/are you having a private last dance?</a>:
    [QUOTE]We're doing one and I'm really excited about it! We're dancing to "only you can love me this way" by Keith Urban.
    Posted by Stef&Bobby0612[/QUOTE]

    Love this song... one of our other choices!
  • edited December 2011

    One of the MANY things I can't wait for!!!

    FI I don't think even knows what it is..lol I picked "Lost In This Moment With You" by Big and Rich. I'm thinking it's perfect...us in the ballroom having our moment we can get lost in...HA! That was cheesy! :)

  • edited December 2011
    Everyone has such great songs!!!  Know I don't know if I picked the right one....Back to the drawing board!
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  • Bootsie12Bootsie12 member
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    edited December 2011

    It was our favorite part of the evening. Our song was "Feels Like Home"  by CHANTAL KREVIAZUK. My DH picked the song.

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    edited December 2011
    We were having a really hard time deciding, but two weeks before the wedding we were out somewhere and heard "Let's Stay Together" by Al Green. I commented that I loved that song, and Courts said his dad (who passed away 1 1/2 years before the wedding) loved Al Green, so it just seemed perfect. :)
  • edited December 2011
    I want to do one, but I'm not sure how we would do it. I'm not planning on having a big exit because I think we'd rather stay & party until the end. I'll have to figure out what we're going to do.
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