I set my date a month away from my wedding, hoping that this might encourage people to send their RSVPs in and not be stressed.Of course, loads of people have not sent them in yet. So far, I had not had the people adding extra names to the RSVP thing happen yet. Of course, I opened a late RSVP today AND it had an extra name on it. And it is a friend of my fiance's family who I do not know (and he doesn't even know). Anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with the issue?Thanks.~Julie