OK so here goes my venting.
I love my FI and can't wait to marry him, but I have to admit that I am not at all excited about planning a wedding. We got engaged in June and are thinking of getting married September 2013. I thought at first I just needed time to get use to getting engaged and that the wedding bug whould get me, however I still am not excited about it.
So here's my why/background info:
Trying to plan a wedding and keep family members happy is really putting a drain on me. My parents are recently divorced and don't get along well and my FI parents have been divorced for a while and don't speak to eachother. We live in TX, but wanted to have a destination wedding in FL at the beach. My family lives all over the country so they are going to have to travel for it no matter what. His family lives a few hours away so the traveling would probably be a bit more inconvient for them. That being said, our plans were to rent a beachhouse for the family to stay and have a basic vacation with a wedding and reception there. However with family dynamcis we then changed it to just the wedding party staying at the house. This however is a problem to me cause I would really like my mom to be there at the house as she is going to be setting everything up, and i am really close to her. But I don't think I can have my mom stay there without inviting my FMIL to stay as well. Of course then isn't that unfair to the Dads? argghhhh I just don't know.
So my questions are; knowing the above info, is it normal for a bride to be to not be excited? Anyone else have this problem and how did u get into the wedding planning mood?