we are having a very low key, classy, backyard wedding in the heat of july/august, my girls will be wearing brown with pink accent, tee-length dresses, i am in a cream dress, and my fiance would like to wear white as well... so here is my dilemma:we want it to be casual and NOT wear clothing that is going to be too hot, so what do the men wear? should they wear black suits? will that be too hot, should they wear khakis? then what shirt? and what should my groom wear, shorts, white linen suit... im confused i need your help!!!