How common is it for a WP to have uneven sides? We're trying to keep things simple and we only have 2 people on each side, however I kind of really feel like this one friend of mine should be included as well, BUT FI doesn't have anyone else that he wants add to his side. We could do uneven sides, which I know isn't the end of the world by any means, but I just don't know if I like that idea either.
A big reason I am having a hard time with it though is because FI doesn't have many close friends that he wants to have IN the wedding, he is having his brother be his best man, and MY brother will be the GM. So if I have 3 BM and my brother in the WP and FI only has his brother and that's it, I will feel like I am dominating the wedding. Hmf.
Thoughts??
Re: Uneven Sides?
[QUOTE]Don't sweat it! It is how it goes. I have 7 bridesmaids and my honey has 4 on this side for groomsmen. It is really not that big of a deal. :)
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Thanks, I know you're right, I don't know why I am having a hard time with it. How are you having them walk?
So, my sister/MOH will walk down the aisle with a guy on each arm (Alex and FI's best man) and the rest of the bridal party will go down in regular pairs.
You could do something similar with your bridal party. Have one of his GMs walk with one BM, the other with two. And honestly, I wouldn't feel guilty about "dominating the wedding." It's not your problem if he doesn't feel close enough to anyone else to have them be in the WP.
We haven't figured out how they'll walk, but I'm sure we can come up with something - probably have one girl walk with 2 guys.
We're having 4 groomsmen, 5 bridesmaids, 2 junior bridesmaids, and 3 flower girls....so heavy on the women! Junior bridesdmaids will walk down together and then the last groomsman will walk down with 2 bridesmaids
Our big girl, Cora, and our sneaky kitty, Roxy
You could always have the guys standing up front with your FI at the beginning of the ceremony and have the girls walk up by themselves. Or they could walk every other - BM then GM then BM then GM.
I was kind of bothered for a while too about having uneven sides, but it's grown on me, especially since it's working out for my sister and niece to walk together. Are you having any FG or RB that you could do that with?
BTW, your little one is adorable : )
Anyway, that was all irrelevant...haha!
My GM's will be already up at the altar and the bridesmaids will walk up alone. Walking back? No idea....two GM's might have to walk down alone...
I don't think any of the GM minded having 2 BMs...except for my 14 year old brother who I think was a little intimidated at first
We didn't want to start asking people to stand up with my husband just to even up the numbers. We both knew who we wanted next to us and made it work from there. I am happy with our decision!
Do what you and your fiance want to do...that's all that matters!