Originally, we were thinking of doing the plantable seed cards as favors. However, my mom mentioned that it would be nice to donate to charity as a favor. I know that according to etiquette, it's a no-no. I want to know the opinions of the June brides.
Here is the thing, my mom has had cancer three times and survived. If we were to donate to charity, it would be to a reputable hospital in Boston that I believe is part of the reason my mom is still with us today. I would say about 90% of the guests at our wedding would understand the connection with this donation.
Is it really that wrong to do this as a favor? I would rather the guests know why they don't get a cheapo shot glass to take home. Maybe some think it's an AW thing, but to me this is a favor that actually has meaning in our lives. My mom crochets hundreds of "chemo caps" and donates them every year to the hospital, and I think this would be a nice gesture for our wedding "favors".
Thoughts?