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VENT!!!!

jenya724jenya724
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WOW! I totally need to vent! So, randomly the Best Man in our wedding sends me a message on Facebook asking who the guy in my Maid of Honor's (his ex girlfriend) picture is that she is kissing. When I read it, I wondered why he cared because they aren't together anymore. He replied with that she was being hypocritical because she told him not to go get with some other girl right away, but she got with some guy. So, I told him that he is her new boyfriend according to her phone. So I guess he went and told her what he thought and then told her that I told him who he was. Then she gets all mad at me (why? I don't know), comes to my house while I am at school and brings back the frame I made her and tells my mom she doesn't want to be in our wedding anymore. I just don't know what I did wrong. I am tired of dealing with other people's drama because I always get stuck in the middle. Thanks for listening!!!
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  • l337Jacquil337Jacqui member
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    edited December 2011
    well, i hate to say it, but i think the problem is just that: you stuck yourself in the middle. if i were in your shoes, i would have told the best man that i'm staying out of it, and if he wants to know, he can ask her! but i avoid drama like the plague.
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  • juliet1503juliet1503 member
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    edited December 2011
    I don't know, I guess I see what you said as kind of okay on your part. I would have also (like pp) said, "ask her," but it doesn't seem like you made a big deal out of it or anything. Maybe she's mad because he embelished what you actually told him or made it seem like you brought it up? And perhaps she doesn't want to be in the wedding anymore because she doesn't want to have to deal with or be around him if he's acting this way? Not saying I agree with any of that, but maybe it's what she's thinking. Sorry this is happening. I too had a MOH issue. . she ended up being booted due to her behavior and it's been for the best, but the circumstances surrounding it all ended a 15 year friendship. Try to talk to her and work it out if you can!
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  • starshine985starshine985 member
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    edited December 2011
    I don't think you did anything wrong - but I do think that if the Best Man wanted to know the answer, he should've manned-up and asked the MOH himself.  Maybe you should try talking to her because perhaps something was blown out of proportion... but give her a few days to cool down.  It's seems like a rather poor reason to drop out of the wedding.  If, after talking to her, she still won't be in the wedding, consider the fact that she may not be comfortable around the Best Man (which I still don't think is a good reason, but nonetheless).  Perhaps her being in the wedding will cause my stress and drama than is necessary.  Just give her a chance to explain.  I hope everything works out for you!
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  • soontobemrs2soontobemrs2 member
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    edited December 2011
    OOps. You didn't do anything wrong. A drama queen will alwasy find a way to drag you in the middle of the Bulls*%tLet it go. ::sits down, yoga pose::Breathe in. Breathe outUhhhmmmm
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  • michelle1433michelle1433 member
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    edited December 2011
    My MOH dropped out 2 weeks before the wedding and it was such a relief! We didn't have to deal with her drama anymore. Maybe it's for the best if she doesn't want to be in your wedding. You don't have time for drama right now, there are so many more important things for you to be worrying about! :)
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