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22 days! I'm going crazy.

jackelbridejackelbride member
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I still have a few people that haven't sent in their rsvps, which irks me.... but we got most of them in and our rsvp date is September 30th.My seamstress fixed my bustle into the double french bustle that I really, really wanted. I just hope she does try to charge me $600 because it took her days to figure it out when she should have at least had some idea... and she used weird hardware so it has to be redone. I'm in the final stretch! I feel manic at times because I'm looking forward to the wedding but paying the last payments is making us so poor! And all these last minute expenses come up... agghh!And work has been so busy and challenging lately. I want a break! I should have taken my honeymoon before the wedding.
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Re: 22 days! I'm going crazy.

  • jackelbridejackelbride member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh yes! Tell my why I got an RSVP back that said "1, maybe 2"WHAT?!!?!? Figure it out!
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  • mkorba439mkorba439
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    edited December 2011
    The only I can say is try to relax. and not worry about rsvps that was and has been the biggest struggle for us. WE gave final count to the venue on monday early I was excited its due tomorrow. And My fi got an email that said someone who had rsvped two adults and one kid arent coming. Great I just paid 300 for your family and you canceled the week before. I feel you I am ready for honeymoon now!
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  • cromero49cromero49
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    edited December 2011
    You can do it, Ruthie! That person who sent the "1, maybe 2" rsvp needs to be told it will be a big fat 0 if they don't make up their mind!!! =)
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  • BrennaGwynBrennaGwyn
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    edited December 2011
    I'm at 22 days too!! If you don't count today.... I'm stressed and excited all at once and totally agree... honeymoons should come first! Hahaha... I can't wait to marry the love of my life and I can't wait to put my toes in the ocean! I only had one no response on my invite (we have a very small wedding)..... but it's really irritating when you have such a small venue and someone doesn't want to go.... but, we will have a blast with the people who are there! I can hardly keep still these days... I just hope I don't turn into a bridezilla! lol
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  • nikilynnenikilynne
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    edited December 2011
    we're at 23 days, too!! eegads!! what will be your last day at work?  I like to count down until then...although I imagine the week before the wedding will be stressful as well...
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  • hmschultshmschults member
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    edited December 2011
    I feel you! I am at 9 days!! I am getting nervous about my dress..the seating chart..people who RSVP'd and now are saying that they can't come...deep breaths..deep breaths...I can't wait to come back and see all of our pictures in a month! Then we can be telling people to breath instead of being stressed!
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  • cecinoaklandcecinoakland member
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    edited December 2011
    we have 21 days left! rsvp's due tomorrow and we're still missing like 57 out of 134 responses. but the bills are starting to get to me and i'm happy for every "no" response we get. is that bad that i'd be happy if half our guest list didnt want to come?
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  • anglynanglyn
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    edited December 2011
    1, maybe 2? Who does that? I hope you get it figured out soon
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  • aflores4aflores4
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    edited December 2011
    I was super stressed about RSVP's and seating chart before the wedding. Day of the wedding, we had people catch the flu and not come last minute... I have to say that I didn't even notice. So, ladies, enjoy the ride. :-)
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