Tonight, FINALLY, FI sat down and talked to me and told me what HE wants in terms of our wedding. I'm completely shocked - he's not much of a detail man. All he would tell me was that he wanted something "cheap and easy" but everything I found, he didn't like. After canceling our DW in Savannah, I planned a few different options here at home. He didn't like any of them. I gave him a deadline of today to make up his mind.... and he did! It was like pulling teeth, but he admitted he REALLY wanted to get married in Savannah, and he wanted it to be just the 3 of us. (Me, him, and dd) I kind of wanted at least our parents there, but I understand his reasoning and am ok with not inviting them. But because I gave up having the family attend the ceremony, I get my brunch AHR! So YAY for this limbo junk being over! Oh, and I have a little less than a year to pull it all together so wish me luck!