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Monday Wedding?

SKL924SKL924 member
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Ok... So Me & My Fiance are having so much trouble agreeing on a date for the wedding. Our reasoning, He wants us to get married on the date we became a couple. Sept 24th, So when we are married it would be like our 6 year anny... But... It happens to fall on a Monday in 2012 when we plan on getting married. Now I do like the idea, since it would have a meaningful date to both of us. And, It hard to just pick a random date with no special meaning.   Im just worried about the incovienence on our guests with a Monday Ceremony. Any Input on this ladies?
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Re: Monday Wedding?

  • garcias1garcias1 member
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    edited December 2011
    A Monday wedding will be hard for a lot of people.  You should ask your closest family and friends if they anticipate being able to go.  For me, a wedding date would have been a dealbreaker if my parents, aunts, uncles, and grandparents couldn't go.  Also, remember that your wedding day will have meaning behind it no matter what the date.  It will be your wedding anniversary that you will celebrate every year.  So whether or not it had any special meaning to begin with is probably irrelevant.
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  • GrauGrau member
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    edited December 2011
    What PP said.

    If you do go with a wedding during the week, be understanding that you will get a lot of declines. Unless I was in the area, or if it was for super close family or friends, I would most likely decline a Monday wedding, since I would need to take off both Monday and Tuesday for travel.
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  • Kimberly0402Kimberly0402 member
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    edited December 2011
    We picked our date together. I picked the month, he picked the date.
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  • aral2003aral2003 member
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    edited December 2011
    Keep in mind that no matter what date you choose, it will have "special meaning" no matter what because it is your wedding day!
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  • TeacherGal10TeacherGal10
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    edited December 2011
    Yep. Whatever you pick will be the most special date you have. A monday will mean you will have almost no one but close family there because people won't take off 2 days from work to travel to your wedding. Don't upset all your friends and family for something like a "special date"
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  • rkatz8rkatz8 member
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    edited December 2011
    if you're ok with a small wedding, you may be able to negotiate some amazing deals on the venue, limo, florist, and caterer. however many photorgraphers and videographers also have regular weekday jobs and won't be able to do a monday.
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