I attended a wedding today and I am now concerned that the gift I gave was not appropriate for the setting. I am wondering now if it would be appropriate to mail an additional gift; or if that would just draw more attention to the fact the my gift was too small initially?
Here's the details:
The couple getting married are friends of my boyfriends who I have met only a handlful of times, but I really like. He is pretty good friends with the groom. We were not initially invited to the wedding but my boyfriend received an email a week prior to the wedding asking if we wanted to go. They had a slot opened because someone could not make it. We were really happy to get an invite! My boyfriend is not one to even one to think of getting a gift; so I got them a gift card for $50.00 for the two of us. Im wishing now I had spent AT LEAST a $100.00. I just bought a house so money is a little tight for me.... but Im not totally broke.
The wedding was by far the nicest I have ever been to with an open bar. It would not surprise me if they spent $50,000 on this wedding. We did not have to travel for the wedding but did need to pay parking fees of $45.00. I feel rather embarrassed by the gift we gave. Typically at weddings I do give more because I give half my gift at the bridal shower and half at the wedding itself. Would it be ok to send an additional gift.... or should I just get over it?