What do you put as your RSVP deadline? I put October 7th but I'm getting nervous because we have only received about half our responses back! I am not going to be happy calling all these people. I cannot understand why people keep telling my mom, FI or me, well I'm telling you now that I'm going so I don't need to send in this response card right? I'm like, no, please just send it back. It's not hard, really, I promise you

Some people have already booked a room and we haven't gotten the response card back. So odd. You must know you're coming if you booked a room right?