FI and are going to do this since we have had so many loved ones affected by different types of cancer (some survivors, some not) I know some people do NOT agree with doing this b/c some guests feel as though we're making a donation for them when that's a personal choice, or that we're announcing to everyone that we're being generous when that should be kept private. For us, this charity means a lot to us, and most of our guests- and rather than a favor that's very cute and nice going to be tossed or eaten within 10days of the wedding, we want to do something meaningful to us. It'd be different if it was a random charity, but this one means something. Also, we won't be making the donations in the guests names, we'll be making them In Memory Of....What are you thoughts on this? AND do you have any ideas to tastefully let people know we are doing this in lieu of favors, without making people feel like we're trying to be snooty about it or anything. We don't want our guests to think we didn't want to spend our money on them, but we want our guests to know we're doing this for those that can thankfully be with us- and for those that unfortunately can't be! :(We were thinking of sticking hte place cards on envelopes with a little note inside... but how can we word it? Anyone else do this?