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What is your take on this?

PT2008PT2008
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My fiance' and I have been engaged since Christmas last year and set our date at the end of Jan. for 10/10/09. Great time to plan save and not to close to the holidays. (original date we wanted was the end of Sept but not avail.) Ok so we have been having problems with his mother and his brother but mostly his mother. So we meet with our pastor and hashed everything out with and over his mother. So she will be aloud at the wedding if she can act civil. (supposed to be a joyous day). So Last nite my fiance' gets this call from his mom "hey what are you doing next wednesday (10/07/2009)? he responded wedding stuff. (his bachlor golf outing is that day at 2:30). "oh because your brother and his fiance' decided to get married that day. WTF???? What sort of sick warped minds do they have. Need advice. I know I should just blow it off and they are not having a big wedding like we have planned, These people are my future family. Is this going to be some psyco competion that I see them creating?
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Re: What is your take on this?

  • sarcole530sarcole530 member
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    edited December 2011
    I have a crazy mother in law as well. You just have to grin and bear it. It is hard, and maybe some day you'll come to blows with her. I've been dealing with that kind of sh*t for over a year now. I know just how you feel- it's terrible. Just keep a smile on your face and don't let them know you're upset. You're right, your wedding is supposed to be a joyous day. Don't let anyone take that away from you!As for your fiance, I'd let him talk to his mom and/or brother about the wedding situation. Maybe he should sit down and have a talk with his mom. Do they get along or does he know shes crazy?
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  • PT2008PT2008
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    edited December 2011
    He knows and can't talk to her she is a master minupilator and he is a people pleaser and hates conflict. Her latest move in the last 24 hours see the need advice post that I posted. In short she has chosen to wear a black pant outfit to the wedding. The colors are burgandy and gold and I guess I can only hope for someone that comes to the wedding to speak up and call her out on it. We are attending their wedding apparently it is just the ceramony and nothing else. An "I Do and Goodbye" no cake dinner or anything.
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  • sarcole530sarcole530 member
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    edited December 2011
    I really can't say that I blame you for just going to the ceremony. I guess if there is anything positive to look at (which it sounds like there's not much..) it's that your fiance knows that his mom is a bit of a nut-case. That may be your saving grace... my husband is mine. Trust me, I totally know how you feel. My in-laws are fricking lunatics. I'll give one example.... my mother in law showed my husband a picture of me wearing my wedding dress six months before our wedding. Talk about a biotch!
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