My fiance and I are getting ready to order invites, but I have a couple questions with regards to wording that I could use some advice on. First, my fiance and I are paying for our wedding, but we still want to use the wording that implies the parents are 'hosting'. His parents are still married; mine are divorced but still share the same last name. What's the best way to phrase this? Fred and Nancy Jones and Mr. and Mrs. John Smith invite...etc?
Next question - we're not giving our guests a meal option at the wedding, choosing rather to go with a dual plate (steak and crab cake). Where is it appropriate on the invite or reception card to ask guests if they have a shellfish allergy?
Thanks everyone!