Just found out we now have to look for an officiant. FI kept promising his dear friend (who happens to be a Catholic priest) was going to be able to marry us - I kept telling him that it probably wasn't going to happen because we're not getting married in a church - but he was convinced.....well, priest just called and confirmed that he, in fact, CAN NOT marry us for that exact reason. So I guess now I'd love to take any recommendations for officiants/JP - religious or otherwise (as long as they're ok with a non-religious ceremony.