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FI is an a**

whis1970whis1970 member
Tenth Anniversary 10 Comments
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So, when we got engaged, I planned on having this small wedding with just our close family and friends. I've had the big fancy wedding before. The problem is that he hasn't. And that is what he wants. Sooo, I gave in. Ordered the big fancy cake with the fancy fountain, bought the fancy white dress, planned this wedding like it is the event of the century. Then the other night, I got on the computer and was listening to some songs. I called him over, wanting him to listen to the song I had chosen to walk down the aisle to. He pops off with "you talk about the wedding too much." What??? He is the one that wanted the big wedding. He doesn't realize what is involved with the kind of wedding he wants to have and it pissed me off that I gave in and now he's complaining that I talk about it too much. I have alot of DIY projects that are things HE wanted. I even took some advice from fellow knotties and set aside 2 nights a week where we do not discuss the wedding. What would you do??? I haven't said a word about it since then either.
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  • JJWC3387JJWC3387 member
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Tell him how you feel (calmly!). Communication is a BIGGY in marriage. Sometimes we cant afford to let the small things linger, but sometimes we can. Only you can make that call for your relationship. Hope that helps.  
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  • pamila51510pamila51510
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    edited December 2011
    Breath wait for a good time and talk to him about it.  I think that he seems very removed from the whole wedding planning process and he should be more involved if he wants it he can help plan it. I have had FI involved in everything. I also make him make decisions about it. He wanted it so therefore he must be involved. We look at the wedding budget every month decide what we are gonna spend the money one and get the checks marked off. Together.  
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  • whis1970whis1970 member
    Tenth Anniversary 10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Thanks for the advice. And sorry about the language, it won't happen again. I am going to wait another week or 2, till I can talk to him about without getting mad, and tell him how I feel. Like has been said, he wanted it, he needs to help plan it. Thanks!
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